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>> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2020 10:12 pm
by Stacey (186047797)
I don't know if anyone has wondered about me or anything but I just want to update you on the goings on with my life. For awhile now I haven't been doing very well and have been going back and forth with my doctor to help me figure out what's happening with me... with no results. I've taken all kinds of tests that I feel like a pin cushion and I'm just tired of getting these tests done. My last visit with my doctor I told him I am done with all these tests and told him that if he can't figure out what's going on by now then I'll be looking for another doctor. Recentely (on Sunday) my Grandmother passed away which was a shock to everyone in my family but at the same time certain family members are suddenly fighting over who's gonna get Gram's home or little odds and ends which I think is stupid since that's a dishonor to her memory. I don't know how many of you know this about me but I am Wiccan. I have turned away from my Christian family because of how hypocritical they have been and still are. I went to see my Grandmother on Saturday (the day before she died) but was denied to see her which hurt and ticked me off because I never got to say my Good-byes. At my Grandmother's funeral (Wednesday the 23rd) my so called Uncle decided to make the funeral about HIS family, thanking his Granddaughter and his stupid wife for "Helping" out Grams when in truth NONE of them have helped her out or bothered to visit her, unlike the rest of us who always made time to see her and help her. Needless to say everyone, my cousins, my other Aunt, and my siblings were ticked off but we held our tongues. At the end of the funeral the Minister (who was my so called Uncle's sister-in-law) decided to ask us all to come up to accept "Jesus" in our hearts... None of us moved forward. After the funeral we were all standing around, talking and remembering Grams. My so called Uncle decided to hug me just to say "we still love you even if you worship the devil" which ticked me off because we Wiccans don't believe in this devil nor do we worship something we don't believe in... Wicca is nature based... so I politely said "it's okay, I have cursed you" and walked away hearing my cousins laugh (my Uncle's own children), they also lectured him and his wife for not allowing me to see Grams and basically told him off. My Family is a mess of Drama that I'm glad to be away from. I still love my family but I am a happier person without them in my life harassing me about my religion. I believe everyone has the right to follow their own paths and people should respect others instead of trying to force their beliefs on others. The funny thing out of this whole thing... my so called Uncle is gonna be upset when he finds out that Grams left her house and all her belongings to Charity instead of family and there's no way he can fight that. The rest of us already knew this and we support this. Gram's house will be sold and the profits will go towards St, Jude's and Wounded Warrior. I'm sorry I've been away for so long... I've been depressed and didn't even celebrate my Birthday which was on the 22nd due to the loss of Grandma... I took a long break from my new job... and I am now back to work and trying to get back to the swing of things. I had some Give-aways on here that I never finished and I might need help finding again... again... I'm so sorry for how I vanished... I hope you all understand and forgive me...

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2020 10:21 pm
by Rod (126579776)
Glad you're back. I hope you find peace in your days. :rose:

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2020 11:06 pm
by Willow (13350872)
Welcome back Stacey :hug: :heart: :hug:

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2020 11:12 pm
by Vivica (13404458)
Merry Meet, Stacey. :hug:

I'm so sorry to hear about everything you've been going through as of late and I'd like to extend my sincerest condolences to you over the passing of your grams. It's cruel that they denied you the chance of saying your goodbyes. I come from a pretty conservative, Christian family, too, so I know what it's like. Luckily, apart from being called evil (and also insinuating the things that I'm into are evil, lol) and being told that I sacrifice cats in my basement (insert eye-roll emoji here), I haven't had too much family drama concerning my beliefs, religious and otherwise. Then again, I don't hold a lot of contact with many of my family members anyways but that's A-OK with me. :haha: :drink:

Welcome back to the forums. I'll send loads of healing energy & good vibes your way. I hope you're at least able to enjoy Mabon a little bit and I hope you have a good upcoming Samhain.

Blessed be. :rose: :love:

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sun Sep 27, 2020 3:24 am
by Mizz Libra (136290570)
Hello, Stacey

Real life should always come first before even the most awesome game.
I am sorry for the loss of your grandma and for how your family has been and has treated you.
Unlike most of my family who is Protestant/Christian I stick out by being atheist.
Most of them luckily don't mind or care. Just my mom's cousin sometimes makes stupid remarks, which is why I avoid
being in the same place with her.
Although I don't know a whole lot about Wiccan belief, I do know it has nothing to do with Satanism.
Perhaps at a later point when things calm down a little you could "celebrate" your birthday a little, although with all the current limitations
it may be a bit different than usually.

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sun Sep 27, 2020 7:57 pm
by Stacey (186047797)
Thanks for the replies everyone. I'm just taking things day by day... but right now I need to look for my Give-aways I had up so I can select winners LOL

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2020 4:16 am
by Theresa (150289702)
So sorry for your loss. Hope the health issues are cleared up soon. Sending light and love your way

Re: >> why I vanished <<

PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2020 10:42 am
by Stacey (186047797)
Theresa (150289702) wrote:So sorry for your loss. Hope the health issues are cleared up soon. Sending light and love your way

Thank you very much