Any one else have mental health issues ?

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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Death Dealer (126579776) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 5:06 pm

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Rod (126579776) wrote:I am very quiet and shy out here in the real world.

I'm very surprised. I wouldn't have guessed that, at all.

Rod (126579776) wrote:I think I'm going to let Christine psychoanalyze me later. She seems capable! :smug: :hug:

Pfft. Christine just reads a lot. When I can't sleep at night, I fall down rabbit holes.

I'm told I'm exactly the same online and IRL. If anything, I'm still a little toned down here. I've been on one forum with a large group since 2004, and many of us have met, hung out, etc. I'm also an open book on Facebook, much to my family's dismay. They think I should share less.

Yo is my escape from illness. That's why I'm here so much all of a sudden. I've dealt with major illness my whole life, but then was diagnosed with breast cancer last year only a few months before my husband was diagnosed with testicular cancer. Suffice to say, it was a crappy year. He's recovering now, and I finish a year of chemo this month and still have a couple more surgeries to go. I got back into Yo and I'm here so often because I had to more or less stop working for a while. My Yo runs around and plays while I lie on the sofa or in bed.

I wasn't going to say anything because I didn't want anyone to think I was fishing for gifts, but you guys are crazy gift-givers regardless. :haha:

Well you are always welcome in here. I hope Yo is super fun for you. And I don't gift people, so you are safe. But I do help people find things when they need them. So don't hesitate to holler if you need help finding a special something for a project. I'm like a vacuum that sucks up the oddities of Yo.

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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Keli Jo (104439710) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 5:15 pm

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Michaela (123232925) wrote:Yes, anxiety and depression.

What annoys me most is when people act like or say stuff like " you don't look like someone who has depression."
Depression is like cancer, it doesn't care who you are or what you look like, it will take you and swallow you whole.

This is exactly what I deal with

Its ridiculous!! With me ...its like yes, I appear confident and make an effort to look good, but that doesn't mean that I don't feel like i'm dying inside.

I know how thay goes all to well
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby ChristineYo2008 (4327680) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:34 pm

Rod (126579776) wrote:
Christine (4327680) wrote:
Rod (126579776) wrote:I am very quiet and shy out here in the real world.

I'm very surprised. I wouldn't have guessed that, at all.

Rod (126579776) wrote:I think I'm going to let Christine psychoanalyze me later. She seems capable! :smug: :hug:

Pfft. Christine just reads a lot. When I can't sleep at night, I fall down rabbit holes.

I'm told I'm exactly the same online and IRL. If anything, I'm still a little toned down here. I've been on one forum with a large group since 2004, and many of us have met, hung out, etc. I'm also an open book on Facebook, much to my family's dismay. They think I should share less.

Yo is my escape from illness. That's why I'm here so much all of a sudden. I've dealt with major illness my whole life, but then was diagnosed with breast cancer last year only a few months before my husband was diagnosed with testicular cancer. Suffice to say, it was a crappy year. He's recovering now, and I finish a year of chemo this month and still have a couple more surgeries to go. I got back into Yo and I'm here so often because I had to more or less stop working for a while. My Yo runs around and plays while I lie on the sofa or in bed.

I wasn't going to say anything because I didn't want anyone to think I was fishing for gifts, but you guys are crazy gift-givers regardless. :haha:

Well you are always welcome in here. I hope Yo is super fun for you. And I don't gift people, so you are safe. But I do help people find things when they need them. So don't hesitate to holler if you need help finding a special something for a project. I'm like a vacuum that sucks up the oddities of Yo.

:smug:

Thank you. :hug: I have been having a great time there and here,
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Pinkylola (235554) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:40 pm

Christine (4327680) wrote:
Rod (126579776) wrote:I am very quiet and shy out here in the real world.

I'm very surprised. I wouldn't have guessed that, at all.

Rod (126579776) wrote:I think I'm going to let Christine psychoanalyze me later. She seems capable! :smug: :hug:

Pfft. Christine just reads a lot. When I can't sleep at night, I fall down rabbit holes.

I'm told I'm exactly the same online and IRL. If anything, I'm still a little toned down here. I've been on one forum with a large group since 2004, and many of us have met, hung out, etc. I'm also an open book on Facebook, much to my family's dismay. They think I should share less.

Yo is my escape from illness. That's why I'm here so much all of a sudden. I've dealt with major illness my whole life, but then was diagnosed with breast cancer last year only a few months before my husband was diagnosed with testicular cancer. Suffice to say, it was a crappy year. He's recovering now, and I finish a year of chemo this month and still have a couple more surgeries to go. I got back into Yo and I'm here so often because I had to more or less stop working for a while. My Yo runs around and plays while I lie on the sofa or in bed.

I wasn't going to say anything because I didn't want anyone to think I was fishing for gifts, but you guys are crazy gift-givers regardless. :haha:


Sorry to hear what you have been through, I had cancer in the past and I know chemo is not something easy to deal with. I stop mine bcause it was killing me. I hope you and your husband get better every day. :rose:
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby ChristineYo2008 (4327680) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 7:34 pm

Thank you. I hope you're OK, too.
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Richford (3429282) » Wed Sep 18, 2019 7:44 pm

I love that there is a thread about this. I think mental health is super important and just as important as physical health. It should be talked about more often than it actually is. You all are so brave for sharing your stories / experiences.
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby JustJo (106622274) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 1:44 am

:hug: pinky and Keli and Christine and even Rod-Pinky I understand and feel for you all too well,kinda dumb thing to say but you are someone who "gets it" without explaining-hell,there isn't enough space online or hours in a day offline to try to explain about a disease. I use to play the song..hold on for one more day by wilson phillips and even sang it many times...that's just what some have to do :heart:
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Keli Jo (104439710) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 1:51 am

JustJo (106622274) wrote::hug: pinky and Keli and Christine and even Rod-Pinky I understand and feel for you all too well,kinda dumb thing to say but you are someone who "gets it" without explaining-hell,there isn't enough space online or hours in a day offline to try to explain about a disease. I use to play the song..hold on for one more day by wilson phillips and even sang it many times...that's just what some have to do :heart:

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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby ELFTexan (103681266) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:48 pm

Due to all the trauma I have went through in my life I have PTSD
I also have
Depression
Anxiety with serve panic attacks at times :sick:
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Pinkylola (235554) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:23 pm

ELFTexanCowgirl (103681266) wrote:Due to all the trauma I have went through in my life I have PTSD
I also have
Depression
Anxiety with serve panic attacks at times :sick:
:dizzy:


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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Riff (185643699) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:36 pm

if you're going through what feels like almost crippling and constant anxiety, try this when you need a break https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfcAVejslrU


“Weightless” — resulted in a striking 65 percent reduction in participants' overall anxiety, and a 35 percent reduction in their usual physiological resting rates. ... The group that created “Weightless”, Marconi Union, did so in collaboration with sound therapists.

According to a marketing study conducted by Dr. David Lewis-Hodgson, the most relaxing song in the world is Weightless, by ambient band Marconi Union.
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Death Dealer (126579776) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:46 pm

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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby ELFTexan (103681266) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 5:42 pm

Pinkylola (235554) wrote:
ELFTexanCowgirl (103681266) wrote:Due to all the trauma I have went through in my life I have PTSD
I also have
Depression
Anxiety with serve panic attacks at times :sick:
:dizzy:


Me love you Elf :heart:

I love you too Pinky :heart: :hug:
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Alicen Chains (155870363) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 10:43 pm

Anxiety, bad. I took Xanax for a few years but learned coping skills. Had a recent tragedy happen and it's returned and the old coping skills aren't working. Heard a song yesterday that made me lol.
"I'd rather be crazy than to take these pills. I'm sick of being ok against my will."
I felt that.
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Riff (185643699) » Thu Sep 19, 2019 11:40 pm

Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote:Anxiety, bad. I took Xanax for a few years but learned coping skills. Had a recent tragedy happen and it's returned and the old coping skills aren't working. Heard a song yesterday that made me lol.
"I'd rather be crazy than to take these pills. I'm sick of being ok against my will."
I felt that.
Big hugs to anyone struggling :heart:

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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Riff (185643699) » Fri Sep 20, 2019 12:07 am

another one to try. quite different to the first one i posted https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCIhBPlZRkI
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Smitten Kitten (136864592) » Fri Sep 20, 2019 8:31 am

Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote:Anxiety, bad. I took Xanax for a few years but learned coping skills. Had a recent tragedy happen and it's returned and the old coping skills aren't working. Heard a song yesterday that made me lol.
"I'd rather be crazy than to take these pills. I'm sick of being ok against my will."
I felt that.
Big hugs to anyone struggling :heart:


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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Alicen Chains (155870363) » Fri Sep 20, 2019 9:11 am

Much love Riff and Smitten Kitten :hug:
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Keli Jo (104439710) » Fri Sep 20, 2019 1:09 pm

ELFTexanCowgirl (103681266) wrote:Due to all the trauma I have went through in my life I have PTSD
I also have
Depression
Anxiety with serve panic attacks at times :sick:
:dizzy:

Many hugs to you I have all that and I can relate
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Re: Any one else have mental health issues ?

Postby Keli Jo (104439710) » Fri Sep 20, 2019 1:10 pm

Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote:Anxiety, bad. I took Xanax for a few years but learned coping skills. Had a recent tragedy happen and it's returned and the old coping skills aren't working. Heard a song yesterday that made me lol.
"I'd rather be crazy than to take these pills. I'm sick of being ok against my will."
I felt that.
Big hugs to anyone struggling :heart:

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