No Cry For Help - Suicide

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No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Mon Apr 08, 2019 2:43 pm

I ran across this today and it is absolutely one of the most stunning break downs of suicidal depression I've ever read. I wish everyone I knew suffering from it would read this and spend some time thinking about it. Getting off those thought tracks is difficult on a good day. But we must fight. We must find that "stick". Don't be afraid to be a "cry for help" if you need to be. FIND SOMEONE NOW. Please.

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Love like I'm on borrowed time
It's good to be alive
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Pinkylola (235554) » Mon Apr 08, 2019 3:14 pm

My nephew kill himself few weeks ago, I wish I could have help him in any way possible...
Makes me realize the impact of the words, good and bad we are going to be hold accountable.
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Mon Apr 08, 2019 3:23 pm

Pinkylola (235554) wrote:My nephew kill himself few weeks ago, I wish I could have help him in any way possible...
Makes me realize the impact of the words, good and bad we are going to be hold accountable.
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Hug you and your fam :rose: :sad:
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Lockhart Missy (140269490) » Tue Apr 09, 2019 2:43 pm

My younger sister killed herself almost 4 years ago. She was 17.
I wish she could've read this, but I don't believe that anything could've changed what happened that night. I've learned in therapy that thinking that things being done differently changes the outcome isn't always the most productive because so many factors go into one single event. I used to blame myself for what happened, like the rest of my family has, but not anymore. I never believed my sister was weak, but just someone who was unable to ask for help.

Thank you for this, I never looked at it like this and I wish more people would see it.
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Tue Apr 09, 2019 2:54 pm

Lockhart Missy (140269490) wrote:My younger sister killed herself almost 4 years ago. She was 17.
I wish she could've read this, but I don't believe that anything could've changed what happened that night. I've learned in therapy that thinking that things being done differently changes the outcome isn't always the most productive because so many factors go into one single event. I used to blame myself for what happened, like the rest of my family has, but not anymore. I never believed my sister was weak, but just someone who was unable to ask for help.

Thank you for this, I never looked at it like this and I wish more people would see it.

My sincerest condolences :rose: :sad:

The darkness that overwhelms the thought life and emotions of too many some people is tangible. Unfortunately they don't go away magically. Finding hope in the middle hopelessness is a struggle. But so many people just want to look the other way instead of diving into the darkness and rooting it out. I hope more people fight for their survival. Life is good and can always be better. We make it so.

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Love like I'm on borrowed time
It's good to be alive
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby JulieHootieScraps (108384802) » Wed Apr 10, 2019 12:36 am

Pinky & Missy, I'm so sorry for your losses.
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Momo05 (187032505) » Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:29 am

Life is precious, no one know what happend next.
No one know when and where :)

Let's keep fighting , things will get better, maybe not soon but i belive it will be better :)
Don't forget to smile, smile is a great way to defeat our depression!
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Alicen Chains (155870363) » Sun Apr 14, 2019 9:58 am

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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Sun Apr 14, 2019 10:32 am

Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote::heartbroken:

Mine's broken for you. :rose: :sad: :'(
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Love like I'm on borrowed time
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Alicen Chains (155870363) » Sun Apr 21, 2019 6:19 pm

Cuddly Asshat (126579776) wrote:
Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote::heartbroken:

Mine's broken for you. :rose: :sad: :'(

I took some advice I read once from some asshat about being out in nature. It's healing. :love: I haven't felt like coming back to Yo yet. Life's too short! I do come here to check on my favorite toons occasionally though :heart: Stay cool~
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Sun Apr 21, 2019 9:28 pm

Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote:
Cuddly Asshat (126579776) wrote:
Alicen Chains (155870363) wrote::heartbroken:

Mine's broken for you. :rose: :sad: :'(

I took some advice I read once from some asshat about being out in nature. It's healing. :love: I haven't felt like coming back to Yo yet. Life's too short! I do come here to check on my favorite toons occasionally though :heart: Stay cool~

Wise decision. Very high impact therapy breathing from a wide open sky. Nothing centers me like nature when I can't find my center.

I got out Saturday morning for 4 hours of this.......

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Love like I'm on borrowed time
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby PurplyAnjelZ XXX (152320506) » Tue Apr 23, 2019 8:51 am

This is nice Rod. So sorry for everyone who has lost someone to this. I know a few, unfortunately, around here who have lost loved ones to this. I had someone very close to me we were very worried about, and were finally able to get her to talk to us. It's very real, very scary and if anyone sees signs, take action the best you can! :sad: :heart:
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby ijOjO uK (109723058) » Mon Apr 29, 2019 3:54 pm

Wow... that is so deep and impactful!!!
Condolences to those who have lost loved ones to depression.:hug: Depression and its consequences does not get the attention and significance it deserves. The more that people share and talk about it, we will lessen the power / hold depression has over people.

Thanks for posting this Rod, I hope many read it and share its message with those who need it.
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby sNaPCaCkLeNPooP (12927062) » Fri May 10, 2019 3:46 pm

This is beautiful. :heart: :rose:
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Fri May 10, 2019 4:30 pm

sNaPCraCkLeNPoP (12927062) wrote:This is beautiful. :heart: :rose:

Yep it tears me up every time I read it. I've just seen too many hearts and minds ripped apart by the madness of not having a stick. No one is worthless. Ever.

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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby CyberPunK (187030201) » Fri May 10, 2019 8:00 pm

This quote by Alan Watts is incredible.

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If you’re ready to wake up, you’re going to wake up and if you’re not ready, you’re going to stay pretending that you're just “poor little me”.

And since you're all here and engaged in this sort of inquiry and listening to this sort of lecture, I
assume that you’re all on the process of waking up or else you’re teasing yourself with some kind of flirtation with waking up which you’re not serious about.

But I assume maybe you are not serious, but sincere that you are ready to wake up. So then, when you’re in the way of waking up and finding out who you really are, what you do is what the whole universe is doing at the place you call here and now.

You are something the whole universe is doing in the same way that a wave is something that the whole ocean is doing.

The real you is not a puppet which life pushes around.

The real, deep down you is the whole universe.

So then, when you die, you’re not going to have to put up with everlasting non-existing. Because that's not an experience. A lot of people are afraid that when they die they’re going to be locked up in a dark room forever and sort of undergo that. But one of the most interesting things in the world – this is yoga, this is a way of realization.

Try and imagine what it will be like to go to sleep and never wake up.

Think about that.

Children think about that.

It’s one of the great wonders of life.

What will it be like to go to sleep and never wake up?
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Marshall Steele (126579776) » Sat May 11, 2019 12:14 am

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So right here, right now
While the sun is shining down
I wanna live like there's no tomorrow
Love like I'm on borrowed time
It's good to be alive
~ Jason Gray
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby sNaPCaCkLeNPooP (12927062) » Mon May 13, 2019 11:16 pm

Carnal Cowboy (126579776) wrote:
sNaPCraCkLeNPoP (12927062) wrote:This is beautiful. :heart: :rose:

Yep it tears me up every time I read it. I've just seen too many hearts and minds ripped apart by the madness of not having a stick. No one is worthless. Ever.

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Well it got me for sure. It is so beautiful and powerful at the same time. :heart: Your right no one is ever worthless and sometimes we all need a little reminder of that.
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby Van Helsing (181179719) » Wed May 15, 2019 1:51 am

Thank you for sharing this with the rest of us. It took me a hell of a lot to find an ounce of self-love to push me to go get my stick. It's challenging on the daily to keep a strong grip on the stick. It's the little sparks, like this one, that shows up on the most opportune moments that hold the most meaning. They remind us that even if we're not liking the movie so far, we should stay to watch it unravel and see where it's heading. :heart:

I offer my most sincere condolences to those who've lost someone dear to them in these circumstances. It is never easy to say goodbye, but always good to remember them in their happiest, brightest times. :rose:
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Re: No Cry For Help - Suicide

Postby JeNNy (175442028) » Sun May 19, 2019 2:58 am

This is so touching... I hope people spread the post out to the world. <3
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