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Re: We All Belong

Postby Falco (185180932) » Wed Oct 09, 2019 9:25 am

I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Denna (10205906) » Wed Oct 09, 2019 9:49 am

Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Pinkylola (235554) » Wed Oct 09, 2019 11:44 am

Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.

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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 5:38 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)


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Re: We All Belong

Postby JulieHootieScraps (108384802) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:14 pm

Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.

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Re: We All Belong

Postby Taurus (185839344) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:23 pm

'i thought "we all belong" was a thing that didn't even need said.. it just was what it was.
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:28 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)


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Re: We All Belong

Postby Erwyle (187240896) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:29 pm

Well since this is back up here again, I was going to say earlier that we all belong except for those who are banned...
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:32 pm

Erwyle (187240896) wrote:Well since this is back up here again, I was going to say earlier that we all belong except for those who are banned...
:shh:


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Sending :heart: to them...
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Taurus (185839344) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:33 pm

Erwyle (187240896) wrote:Well since this is back up here again, I was going to say earlier that we all belong except for those who are banned...
:shh:

seems about right
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:37 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)


:shh:


Want a thump up?

Here you go... :thumbsup: :D


:haha: :haha: :haha:

Where is Roddie?? :haha:
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:41 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)


:shh:


Want a thump up?

Here you go... :thumbsup: :D


:haha: :haha: :haha:

Where is Roddie?? :haha:


Still awake? :shocked:

Let's go sleep my twin... :silly:

Well, not together! :haha: You in your bed... I in mine... :D

Sleep tight :hug:

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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:53 pm

Well, the idea that we all belong is actually a logical fallacy. Not only that, but also from a psychological and social point of view, it is something that is impossible. Why? Because we all belong in itself contains a paradox. We can feel belong only if there is a possibility that we may not belong, and if there is at least one other group external to this group, and if there is zero possibility that there could be sub-groups within the group. Anything bigger than 2 (two) can form a sub-group and thus we all belong is not logical. Psychologically, socially, humans are much more complex and have different goals, aspirations, expectations, feeling of similarity with others, or on the contrary cannot obtain feeling of similarity. To feel belonging to a cohort/group, there must be at least one similarity between two individuals. Just because two people play the same game does not necessarily make one or both feel similar to each other and feel belonging to a group. By default, humans shape patterns and categories in their brains, it is demanded for survival, to distinguish danger and non-danger, to distinguish enemies and non-enemies, thus they can form sub-groups, a group within a group, which is necessary for this sense of belonging. For all/everyone to feel belonging to one-and-the same group, ironically, means there is no group, and if there is no group, what can one feel belonging to?

For those who don't feel belong here, no worries, you are completely normal :haha: Not saying who feel belong not normal, of course. It is just this sense and feeling is being too simplified and too generalized. It won't work. Just be who you are, be yourself, and be happy, that is what matters :heart:

Edited for grammar mistakes and for clarity. My English sucks and I am sleepy :haha:
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:54 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.



Maybe because there is a story behind that? :)

A real story, true story which can't be shared here openly, but it hurts someone's feelings...

And NO, not all the people have the same strenght, that is fact.

Think about it. :)


:shh:


Want a thump up?

Here you go... :thumbsup: :D


:haha: :haha: :haha:

Where is Roddie?? :haha:


Still awake? :shocked:

Let's go sleep my twin... :silly:

Well, not together! :haha: You in your bed... I in mine... :D

Sleep tight :hug:

:sleeping:


Twin?? :haha: :haha: :haha:

Nite nite, Twin! :haha: :hug:

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Re: We All Belong

Postby MasLocaQueTuTia (121801712) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:54 pm

Kio (185180932) wrote:I don't know why anyone believes they don't belong. Do you visit any other website or forum and think less of yourself? Do you play any other game and think less of yourself? I can't understand why other's get in this victim mindset just over a FORUM. Maybe because i am used to other online games with forums that i see it for how black and white it actually is. To me it's of no importance who disagrees with my feedback to bvg. It is ultimately bvg's job to decide which feedback they are welcoming to and which feedback can sit a little longer. I'd never let an opinion scare me out the door & i hope other's feel that same strength to their own right. I guess after a lifetime of using the internet it is just not a question to me but a truth that anyone belongs.

Great minds think alike :trophy: :thumbsup: :hug:
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Re: We All Belong

Postby JulieHootieScraps (108384802) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 6:56 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:Well, the idea that we all belong is actually a logical fallacy. Not only that, but also from a psychological and social point of view, it is something that is impossible. Why? Because we all belong in itself contains a paradox. We can feel belong only if there is a possibility that we may not belong, and if there is at least one other group external to this group, and if there is zero possibility that there could be sub-groups within the group. Anything bigger than the two can form a sub-group and thus we all belong is not logical. Psychologically, socially, humans are much more complex and have different goals, aspirations, expectations, feeling of similarity with others, or on the contrary cannot obtain feeling of similarity. To feel belonging to a cohort/group, there must be at least one similarity between two individuals. Just because two people play the same game does not necessarily make one or both feel similar to each other and feel belonging to a group. By default, humans shape patterns and categories in their brains, it is demanded for survival, to distinguish danger and non-danger, thus they can form sub-groups, a group within a group, which is necessary for this sense of belonging. To feel belonging to one group, ironically, means there is no group, and if there is no group, what can one feel belong to?

For those who don't feel belong here, no worries, you are completely normal :haha: Not saying who feel belong not normal, of course. It is just this sense and feeling is being too simplified and too generalized. It won't work. Just be who you are, be yourself, and be happy, that is what matters :heart:

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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 7:00 pm

JulieHootieScraps (108384802) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:Well, the idea that we all belong is actually a logical fallacy. Not only that, but also from a psychological and social point of view, it is something that is impossible. Why? Because we all belong in itself contains a paradox. We can feel belong only if there is a possibility that we may not belong, and if there is at least one other group external to this group, and if there is zero possibility that there could be sub-groups within the group. Anything bigger than the two can form a sub-group and thus we all belong is not logical. Psychologically, socially, humans are much more complex and have different goals, aspirations, expectations, feeling of similarity with others, or on the contrary cannot obtain feeling of similarity. To feel belonging to a cohort/group, there must be at least one similarity between two individuals. Just because two people play the same game does not necessarily make one or both feel similar to each other and feel belonging to a group. By default, humans shape patterns and categories in their brains, it is demanded for survival, to distinguish danger and non-danger, thus they can form sub-groups, a group within a group, which is necessary for this sense of belonging. To feel belonging to one group, ironically, means there is no group, and if there is no group, what can one feel belong to?

For those who don't feel belong here, no worries, you are completely normal :haha: Not saying who feel belong not normal, of course. It is just this sense and feeling is being too simplified and too generalized. It won't work. Just be who you are, be yourself, and be happy, that is what matters :heart:

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Thanks, I wrote above so as not to make those who feel they don't belong here feel ostracized or feel they are weird, because they are NOT!! Be yourself and to hell with what others say/ judging you :hug:
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Re: We All Belong

Postby JulieHootieScraps (108384802) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 7:05 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:Thanks, I wrote above so as not to make those who feel they don't belong here feel ostracized or feel they are weird, because they are NOT!! Be yourself and to hell with what others say/ judging you :hug:

Most often times, people are just speaking their minds -- not everything is a judgement against someone else. Discernment is a skill people have to learn.
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 7:11 pm

JulieHootieScraps (108384802) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:Thanks, I wrote above so as not to make those who feel they don't belong here feel ostracized or feel they are weird, because they are NOT!! Be yourself and to hell with what others say/ judging you :hug:

Most often times, people are just speaking their minds -- not everything is a judgement against someone else. Discernment is a skill people have to learn.


Agreed. it is a matter of personal and momental interpretation, which in turn, is the product of personal traits, culture, upbringing, experience, knowledge, personal bias and prejudice, etc. To add to those factors, it is on the internet, we cannot see facial expressions, body language and gestures of the writer/speaker.
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Re: We All Belong

Postby Kath (109737351) » Thu Oct 10, 2019 7:11 pm

Sometimes, "I don't belong" just means you don't have anything in common with the people around you. It doesn't have to mean one person is right and the other is wrong, or one person is a victim and the other is a victimizer.
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