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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Willow (13350872) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:08 am

Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Willow (13350872) wrote:
Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Allergic2BS (135815676) wrote:So basically the person deleted you because of "Who you hang with". Wow.. people never cease to amaze me. I'm gonna use Denna as an example.. I don't hang around with Denna but I like her. She's never done anything to me.. she's always been nice to me. But now that I said I like Denna.. does that give people a reason to delete me because some might not like her and I do. You see where I'm going with this and what I'm saying ;) I don't need to say anything else :thumbsup:

*giggle*

That's why I seemingly can't keep some buds. I will befriend the foulest of Yos. And we also have some players who get their feels hurt by everyone, and they are often my buds too. And they can't reconcile that they have a buddy who can stay friends with their "mortal enemies". So they decide I must be an 'enemy by association' as well. I actually feel sorry for their tortured and limited little world.

I'll go one step further too. I don't hold grudges. Not even for a minute. I choose not to remember any offense against me, no matter how heinous.....as long as they don't repeat the pattern. I give people the chance to prove they had a bad moment. This also offends the thin skinned ones who somehow keep up with every wrong theyve ever experienced, like they were being rewarded for it. LoL.

I wish people would grow the f up and move beyond their petty high school feelies. But some people can't. And yeah, I really do pity them. Can you imagine the prison they've made for themselves inside their head? They are bound by false chains of hurt and unforgiveness based on stuff that happened years ago. That's not living in my book. That's sticking with old festering wounds and never letting them heal. Ickitty


Have I ever asked you? Do you talk in your sleep? :smug: :silly:

Aww sweet Willow you are by far one of the most balanced hearts in here. You don't take sh*t and you give everyone a chance. You can be my buddy forever. :hug:


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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Erwyle (187240896) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:26 am

Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:I have buddies who unbuddied me because I didn't like one of their friends, and they didn't like that. And I've had buddies who unbuddied me because I liked one of their enemies, and they didn't like that. I guess I need to do a thorough review of each player's A list to be sure we are in alignment before proceeding with a new buddy add...
:silly:

Dude I hope not.

But there is definitely a club out there (that I don't want any part of) that spends twisted emotional energy on targeting those they perceive as enemies. I've seen it countless times in the game and in here. I've gotten some of the most ridiculous PMs about "how can I even post on THEIR thread" and "I thought you were MY friend". The disease of perpetual hate is one I stay as far away from as possible no matter if I'm posting in here or playing Yo or living my damn life. I've counselled too many people who have held an offense for DECADES and it has eaten them alive. That sh*t is some of the nastiest festering emotional gangrene I've ever seen.


Well, I'm still on your buddy list despite it all. So that's something yeah? I think you and I are peas in a pod really. But I'm good cop, you're bad cop...
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:27 am

Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Autumn Glory (105171200) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:35 am

Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:I have buddies who unbuddied me because I didn't like one of their friends, and they didn't like that. And I've had buddies who unbuddied me because I liked one of their enemies, and they didn't like that. I guess I need to do a thorough review of each player's A list to be sure we are in alignment before proceeding with a new buddy add...
:silly:

Dude I hope not.

But there is definitely a club out there (that I don't want any part of) that spends twisted emotional energy on targeting those they perceive as enemies. I've seen it countless times in the game and in here. I've gotten some of the most ridiculous PMs about "how can I even post on THEIR thread" and "I thought you were MY friend". The disease of perpetual hate is one I stay as far away from as possible no matter if I'm posting in here or playing Yo or living my damn life. I've counselled too many people who have held an offense for DECADES and it has eaten them alive. That sh*t is some of the nastiest festering emotional gangrene I've ever seen.



I once got a pm to remove my post from "their" thread... I had a good laugh with that one. :haha: :haha: :haha:




:shocked: wow
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Veep Dagina (126579776) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:38 am

Autumn Glory (105171200) wrote:
Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:I have buddies who unbuddied me because I didn't like one of their friends, and they didn't like that. And I've had buddies who unbuddied me because I liked one of their enemies, and they didn't like that. I guess I need to do a thorough review of each player's A list to be sure we are in alignment before proceeding with a new buddy add...
:silly:

Dude I hope not.

But there is definitely a club out there (that I don't want any part of) that spends twisted emotional energy on targeting those they perceive as enemies. I've seen it countless times in the game and in here. I've gotten some of the most ridiculous PMs about "how can I even post on THEIR thread" and "I thought you were MY friend". The disease of perpetual hate is one I stay as far away from as possible no matter if I'm posting in here or playing Yo or living my damn life. I've counselled too many people who have held an offense for DECADES and it has eaten them alive. That sh*t is some of the nastiest festering emotional gangrene I've ever seen.



I once got a pm to remove my post from "their" thread... I had a good laugh with that one. :haha: :haha: :haha:


:shocked: wow

IKR? It happens. :sad:

But I just had an image of Sam or you responding to me telling either of you not to post in someone's thread. It's not forum friendly. :haha: :haha: :haha: :haha:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Autumn Glory (105171200) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 11:53 am

Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Autumn Glory (105171200) wrote:
Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:I have buddies who unbuddied me because I didn't like one of their friends, and they didn't like that. And I've had buddies who unbuddied me because I liked one of their enemies, and they didn't like that. I guess I need to do a thorough review of each player's A list to be sure we are in alignment before proceeding with a new buddy add...
:silly:

Dude I hope not.

But there is definitely a club out there (that I don't want any part of) that spends twisted emotional energy on targeting those they perceive as enemies. I've seen it countless times in the game and in here. I've gotten some of the most ridiculous PMs about "how can I even post on THEIR thread" and "I thought you were MY friend". The disease of perpetual hate is one I stay as far away from as possible no matter if I'm posting in here or playing Yo or living my damn life. I've counselled too many people who have held an offense for DECADES and it has eaten them alive. That sh*t is some of the nastiest festering emotional gangrene I've ever seen.



I once got a pm to remove my post from "their" thread... I had a good laugh with that one. :haha: :haha: :haha:


:shocked: wow

IKR? It happens. :sad:

But I just had an image of Sam or you responding to me telling either of you not to post in someone's thread. It's not forum friendly. :haha: :haha: :haha: :haha:



You seem to understand me..... :haha:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Alicen Chains (155870363) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 12:17 pm

I recently unbuddied and unfriended someone because I saw the girl who's friend/alt? who mucked up mine and a real friends inbox. If Yoworld would make them completely invisible I would've never known. I come here to relax and create not thrive on drama. Not my fb friends fault but I'll go that far to protect my peace. Way over there is where they can keep that BS. :drink:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby BEANS (110735736) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 12:58 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:

yes same here, I delete after 4 weeks thinking they left, lol. funny thing is this even I was glued to hospital bed twice for 6 weeks :D :silly: :smug:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:23 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Lainie (124009750) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:25 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:

Nor me... :heart:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby ZipLocket (144540244) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:25 pm

oh ok you all. you got me laughing now.
Hate? people are saying this person Hated by what she wrote? How can so many people go off the deep end like this? ..
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:26 pm

BEANS (110735736) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:

yes same here, I delete after 4 weeks thinking they left, lol. funny thing is this even I was glued to hospital bed twice for 6 weeks :D :silly: :smug:


Okay I'll make it 8 weeks then, before deleting a buddy :haha:
Actually I seldom delete buddies and only do when I happened to access the buddy list and noticed the long absence.
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:27 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:28 pm

Lainie (124009750) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:

Nor me... :heart:


Lainie... :hug: :heart: :rose: You kind and beautiful soul... :hug:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:32 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:


Are you going to Croatia for a vacation again? Have fun, Denna!! :heart:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:33 pm

Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:


Are you going to Croatia for a vacation again? Have fun, Denna!! :heart:


Yes, 2 weeks Bosnia and 2 weeks Croatia... :love: :heart: Ty so vm :hug:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby BEANS (110735736) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:34 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:


Are you going to Croatia for a vacation again? Have fun, Denna!! :heart:


Yes, 2 weeks Bosnia and 2 weeks Croatia... :love: :heart: Ty so vm :hug:

nice, enjoy ur vacation, take lots of pix for us bc I ve never been there
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Stardust (186190305) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:34 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:


Are you going to Croatia for a vacation again? Have fun, Denna!! :heart:


Yes, 2 weeks Bosnia and 2 weeks Croatia... :love: :heart: Ty so vm :hug:


:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :hug:
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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:37 pm

BEANS (110735736) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:I only delete buddies who have not been online for more than 4 weeks.


Once, I was on vacation 5 weeks and some people deleted me thinking I left game :haha:


You can take a vacation as long as you wish, you know I will never delete you! :haha: :hug:


:hug: :heart:

Next month, 4 weeks again... :love:


Are you going to Croatia for a vacation again? Have fun, Denna!! :heart:


Yes, 2 weeks Bosnia and 2 weeks Croatia... :love: :heart: Ty so vm :hug:

nice, enjoy ur vacation, take lots of pix for us bc I ve never been there


Ty so vm, I will :thumbsup:

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Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Allergic2BS (135815676) » Fri Jul 12, 2019 1:56 pm

Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Mischievous (126579776) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:I have buddies who unbuddied me because I didn't like one of their friends, and they didn't like that. And I've had buddies who unbuddied me because I liked one of their enemies, and they didn't like that. I guess I need to do a thorough review of each player's A list to be sure we are in alignment before proceeding with a new buddy add...
:silly:

Dude I hope not.

But there is definitely a club out there (that I don't want any part of) that spends twisted emotional energy on targeting those they perceive as enemies. I've seen it countless times in the game and in here. I've gotten some of the most ridiculous PMs about "how can I even post on THEIR thread" and "I thought you were MY friend". The disease of perpetual hate is one I stay as far away from as possible no matter if I'm posting in here or playing Yo or living my damn life. I've counselled too many people who have held an offense for DECADES and it has eaten them alive. That sh*t is some of the nastiest festering emotional gangrene I've ever seen.



I once got a pm to remove my post from "their" thread... I had a good laugh with that one. :haha: :haha: :haha:


Hey, don't feel bad. I got a PM once telling me to REMOVE MY POST from someone's thread :haha: :haha: And I didn't remove it either.. still got the message in my inbox :devil:
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