Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

General discussion about YoWorld. NOW INCLUDING feedback and suggestions!

Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby ElizabethXCX (185740178) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 3:36 pm

Hi Yo! I received this very interesting (and rude) message from one of my buddies on YoWorld bright and early today.

Image

I have never talked to this person before... I don't remember how we became buddies. Was I the only player to receive a similar message? I'm thankful I was removed as a buddy. I was judged by someone I don't even know. I thought it was uncalled for, so I wrote the person back in a nice manner.

Image

I felt like screaming, but then again, screaming wouldn't have been the proper way to approach the situation.
I'm so confused on what I did. I doubt I did anything. :dizzy:
Icelandic Home | Romantic Resort
"An artist is someone who can hold two opposing viewpoints and still remain fully functional."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
User avatar
ElizabethXCX (185740178)
YoWorld Level: 292
YoWorld Start Date: May 15, 2014
 
Forum Posts: 53
Forum Title: YoNovice
Location: On top of the world

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby BadMoon (153955457) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 3:57 pm

Sis if someone were to send me such a message and wanted to delete me for the reason stated, i would consider it a blessing.
It aint no skin off your back.

Some people you simply can't make sense out of. And i wouldn't let it bother you.
Image


Image
User avatar

BadMoon (153955457)
YoWorld Level: 325
YoWorld Start Date: Mar 21, 2010
 
Forum Posts: 11102
Forum Title: YoBeliever

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby JulieHootieScraps (108384802) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 3:58 pm

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I have not gotten a message like that, but I have received other not nice messages in my inbox. Otherwise, I've just been unceremoniously unbuddied.
Image
ImageImage
*You don't fool me.* Silence is golden; duct tape is silver.
User avatar

JulieHootieScraps (108384802)
YoWorld Level: 339
YoWorld Start Date: Jul 11, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 14773
Forum Title: YoWild

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Sam Holmes (139381965) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:07 pm

Does the XCX in your name stand for some club? They might be deleting anyone with those letters.

You're better off with that person off your list in any case. Anyone so sensitive that they'd do that is worth losing.
User avatar

Sam Holmes (139381965)
YoWorld Level: 351
YoWorld Start Date: Dec 09, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 22366
Forum Title: YoCrazy

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Rod (126579776) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:10 pm

Oh you were ever so much nicer than I would have been.........

Dear Infant - Thank you for removing me from your safety bubble. I come "as is", am prone to wildness, and will probably offend your sense of existence. Feel free to be my buddy again after you finish your metamorphosis from larvae to "emotionally secure".
Image

Mad Hatter - Have I gone mad?
Alice - I'm afraid so. Entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are.
User avatar
Rod (126579776)
YoWorld Level: 256
YoWorld Start Date: Oct 04, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 37054
Forum Title: #1 YoFiend
Location: Presiding Over Mayhem & Nonsense

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby MsPhantom (129173078) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:22 pm

Maybe it's just me but I don't think this person was being rude. :eh:

They said that they did not think that you were mean and also told you that they hope you were treated well in the game. It didn't look to me like they were "coming" at you.

It's not necessarily that you did anything wrong. Maybe they have their reasons. This is probably not the response that you want to hear but I really don't think it was in this person's intentions to be rude or mean or to hurt you in any way.
User avatar
MsPhantom (129173078)
YoWorld Level: 320
YoWorld Start Date: Oct 16, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12167
Forum Title: YoBeliever
Location: Among the Roses...

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Moloch (153939982) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:23 pm

I don't have a clue whos on my buddy list! lol

The gems have brought out the social side of me I thought was long gone, well apparently its considered socializing adding people for gems, and I am after the gems, lol, gold digger here! :haha: :haha:

That kind of message would not surprise me it takes all kinds of us to make this world to go around, I think I would kinda enjoy it and have a lil giggle! :silly:

Like you said lucky (thankful) you were deleted, its all the good fortune you need. :hug: :)
Image
User avatar
Moloch (153939982)
YoWorld Level: 343
YoWorld Start Date: Mar 20, 2010
 
Forum Posts: 6054
Forum Title: YoDedicated
Location: Off Planet!

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby ElizabethXCX (185740178) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:26 pm

Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:Does the XCX in your name stand for some club? They might be deleting anyone with those letters.

You're better off with that person off your list in any case. Anyone so sensitive that they'd do that is worth losing.

I'm not in a single club. :haha: I hide away and stay invisible to the game. I just like the letters XCX.
Icelandic Home | Romantic Resort
"An artist is someone who can hold two opposing viewpoints and still remain fully functional."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
User avatar
ElizabethXCX (185740178)
YoWorld Level: 292
YoWorld Start Date: May 15, 2014
 
Forum Posts: 53
Forum Title: YoNovice
Location: On top of the world

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby ElizabethXCX (185740178) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:28 pm

MsPhantom (129173078) wrote:Maybe it's just me but I don't think this person was being rude. :eh:

They said that they did not think that you were mean and also told you that they hope you were treated well in the game. It didn't look to me like they were "coming" at you.

It's not necessarily that you did anything wrong. Maybe they have their reasons. This is probably not the response that you want to hear but I really don't think it was in this person's intentions to be rude or mean or to hurt you in any way.

It's nice to have someone else's perspective on this!
Icelandic Home | Romantic Resort
"An artist is someone who can hold two opposing viewpoints and still remain fully functional."
- F. Scott Fitzgerald
User avatar
ElizabethXCX (185740178)
YoWorld Level: 292
YoWorld Start Date: May 15, 2014
 
Forum Posts: 53
Forum Title: YoNovice
Location: On top of the world

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:30 pm

In more than 10 years I never got any rude or nasty message in my inbox in game... But never say never...
Only few times some players asked for stuff...

Thankfully, we have "delete" option in our inbox and the (Yo)life goes on...

:)
"It all begins and ends in your mind...What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it."
User avatar
Denna (10205906)
YoWorld Level: 310
YoWorld Start Date: Feb 25, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12910
Forum Title: YoWild

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Erwyle (187240896) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:40 pm

If I didn’t know the buddy and got a message like that I’d go whatever, somebody confused, and delete it so it’s not in my face...

;)
Image
User avatar
Erwyle (187240896)
YoWorld Level: 315
YoWorld Start Date: Oct 05, 2016
 
Forum Posts: 12895
Forum Title: YoWild
Location: At the corner of healthy and happy :)

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Patmin (3374531) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:41 pm

It's been a long time since the last time a person got a message like that. I remember all of us thinking....whaaaat???? o_o
User avatar
Patmin (3374531)
YoWorld Level: 360
YoWorld Start Date: Oct 10, 2008
 
Forum Posts: 6238
Forum Title: YoDedicated
Location: Transmitting from the Equestraverse

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:45 pm

Patmin (3374531) wrote:It's been a long time since the last time a person got a message like that. I remember all of us thinking....whaaaat???? o_o


Oh, so it happend before? :?:

My first thought was: Someone must be bored... And when people are bored, they do weird things... :)
"It all begins and ends in your mind...What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it."
User avatar
Denna (10205906)
YoWorld Level: 310
YoWorld Start Date: Feb 25, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12910
Forum Title: YoWild

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Sam Holmes (139381965) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:54 pm

Denna (10205906) wrote:In more than 10 years I never got any rude or nasty message in my inbox in game... But never say never...
Only few times some players asked for stuff...

Thankfully, we have "delete" option in our inbox and the (Yo)life goes on...

:)



Would you like us to send you some sweetie? JK of course :D :hug:

I had one loser send me hundreds of rude messages once... and he claimed I had no life!!! :haha: :haha: :haha:
User avatar

Sam Holmes (139381965)
YoWorld Level: 351
YoWorld Start Date: Dec 09, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 22366
Forum Title: YoCrazy

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:11 pm

Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:In more than 10 years I never got any rude or nasty message in my inbox in game... But never say never...
Only few times some players asked for stuff...

Thankfully, we have "delete" option in our inbox and the (Yo)life goes on...

:)



Would you like us to send you some sweetie? JK of course :D :hug:

I had one loser send me hundreds of rude messages once... and he claimed I had no life!!! :haha: :haha: :haha:


YOU can always send me whatever you want! :D :hug:

I am sorry you got such messages... But, I love the saying: Don't listen / look what is said, look WHO said it ;)
If it is persona non grata, I don't care!
"It all begins and ends in your mind...What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it."
User avatar
Denna (10205906)
YoWorld Level: 310
YoWorld Start Date: Feb 25, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12910
Forum Title: YoWild

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby MsPhantom (129173078) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:16 pm

Sam Holmes (139381965) wrote:
Denna (10205906) wrote:In more than 10 years I never got any rude or nasty message in my inbox in game... But never say never...
Only few times some players asked for stuff...

Thankfully, we have "delete" option in our inbox and the (Yo)life goes on...

:)



Would you like us to send you some sweetie? JK of course :D :hug:

I had one loser send me hundreds of rude messages once... and he claimed I had no life!!! :haha: :haha: :haha:


Yikes. That reminds me of something I experienced here a few months ago.

Once a player that I didn't even know really at all went to my place through my apartment link and took screenshots of my entire inbox with every message that other players sent me and even visited the places of the people that sent me messages just to see if I sending them messages talking about her. I literally didn't know who she was or know anything about this player at all besides her username. This player is also constantly talking about me and has said nothing but rude and crazy things. She once accused me of "stalking" her. She bragged about having me blocked for "three years" even though we didn't even know of each other's existences until a few months ago. She once told me to get a life because I showed up to an auction event that she was at. It was literally my first time going to an auction in months and I didn't know who would be there when I clicked on the event. Talk about having no life. :haha:

I am always so thankful for the block function.
User avatar
MsPhantom (129173078)
YoWorld Level: 320
YoWorld Start Date: Oct 16, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12167
Forum Title: YoBeliever
Location: Among the Roses...

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Willow (13350872) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:16 pm

If someone deletes me, I'm like see ya :bye: no skin off my back :haha: honestly though, I probably would't notice if someone did delete me, I know who my true friends are and they're always there :D
I know everybody says
Money can't buy happiness
But it could buy me a boat, it could buy me a truck to pull it
It could buy me a Yeti 110 iced down with some silver bullets
User avatar
Willow (13350872)
YoWorld Level: 265
YoWorld Start Date: Apr 09, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 16051
Forum Title: YoFiend
Location: Doing the Monster Mash

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Lippyfoo (185643699) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:20 pm

to me that message sounds quite polite, well definitely not rude at all. and he/she did say it wasnt anything you did wrong. i wouldnt worry about it at all :bye:
Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply - Stephen R. Covey
User avatar
Lippyfoo (185643699)
YoWorld Level: 388
YoWorld Start Date: Feb 28, 2014
 
Forum Posts: 12209
Forum Title: YoBeliever
Location: under Raffs bed

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Allergic2BS (135815676) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:26 pm

So basically the person deleted you because of "Who you hang with". Wow.. people never cease to amaze me. I'm gonna use Denna as an example.. I don't hang around with Denna but I like her. She's never done anything to me.. she's always been nice to me. But now that I said I like Denna.. does that give people a reason to delete me because some might not like her and I do. You see where I'm going with this and what I'm saying ;) I don't need to say anything else :thumbsup:
Image
User avatar
Allergic2BS (135815676)
YoWorld Level: 261
YoWorld Start Date: Nov 18, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 7935
Forum Title: YoEnthusiast
Location: In order for you to insult me.. I must 1st value your opinion.

Re: Did Anyone Receive Similar Message?

Postby Denna (10205906) » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:30 pm

Allergic2BS (135815676) wrote:So basically the person deleted you because of "Who you hang with". Wow.. people never cease to amaze me. I'm gonna use Denna as an example.. I don't hang around with Denna but I like her. She's never done anything to me.. she's always been nice to me. But now that I said I like Denna.. does that give people a reason to delete me because some might not like her and I do. You see where I'm going with this and what I'm saying ;) I don't need to say anything else :thumbsup:


Be careful sweetie, you may get yourself some enemies... :angel: :D :haha:

I like you too sweetheart :hug: :rose:
"It all begins and ends in your mind...What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it."
User avatar
Denna (10205906)
YoWorld Level: 310
YoWorld Start Date: Feb 25, 2009
 
Forum Posts: 12910
Forum Title: YoWild

Next

Return to YoWorld Discussions